Tender When I Want to Be

Mary Chapin Carpenter

About Tender When I Want to Be

"Tender When I Want to Be" is a song written and recorded by American country music artist Mary Chapin Carpenter. It was released in December 1994 as the second single from her album Stones in the Road. The song reached number 6 on the Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks chart in February 1995.


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I have a heart that's proud, you bet
I have a mind that won't forget
And I have arms that are strong and yet
Tender when they want to to be

Well, you can be the will that finds the way
And you can be the one who saves the day
But show me tender when it's time to say
Exactly how it ought to be

And I never would've known it, darlin'
If I hadn't known about you
You said everyone can be a rock-'n'-roll like a river too

Well, something happens when you find someone
Who makes you feel like you can do no wrong
No, you don't have to take the whole world on
Just be tender when you want be

And I never would have known it, baby
If I hadn't known about you
You said everyone can be a rock-'n'-roll like a river too

So let the waters carry us away
Wave goodbye to the old parade
Baby, when we're unafraid
To be tender when we want to be

All the waters wash our cares away
All that we can see are better days
Don't ever let me hesitate
To be tender when I want to be

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Mary Chapin Carpenter

Mary Chapin Carpenter (born February 21, 1958) is an American folk and country music singer, songwriter and musician. Carpenter spent several years singing in Washington, D.C. clubs before signing in the late 1980s with Columbia Records, who marketed her as a country singer. Carpenter's first album, 1987's Hometown Girl, did not produce any singles, although 1989's State of the Heart and 1990's Shooting Straight in the Dark each produced four Top 20 hits on the Billboard country singles charts. more »

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Written by: MARY CARPENTER

Lyrics © MARY CHAPIN CARPENTER DBA WHY WALK MUSIC

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11 facts about this song

Song Origins
"Tender When I Want to Be" is a song by American singer-songwriter Mary Chapin Carpenter. It's part of her album "Stones in the Road" which was released in 1994.
Single Release
It was released as the third single from this album in 1995.
Song Genre
The song is categorized under the country music genre.
Billboard Achievement
"Tender When I Want to Be" reached number 6 on the Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks chart in March 1995.
Award Nominations
The album "Stones in the Road" that features this song received nominations for the Country Music Association's Album of the Year and the Grammy Award for Best Country Album.
Song Theme
The song explores the complexities and contradictions of the narrator's character with lines such as "I'm tender when I want to be."
Songwriting
Like all the tracks on the "Stones in the Road" album, "Tender When I Want to Be" was written by Carpenter herself.
Critical Reception
The song, along with the entire album, was well received by critics. AllMusic gave the album four and a half stars out of five, applauding Carpenter's songwriting.
Music Video
The music video for the song was directed by Steven Goldmann, who has worked with a host of other popular country artists.
Concert Performances
"Tender When I Want to Be" often features in Carpenter's live performances.
Carpenter’s Evolution
This song is considered part of Carpenter's evolution from her straightforward country beginnings to a more folk-influenced sound.

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