Child Psychology

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About Child Psychology

"Child Psychology" is a song by English indie rock band Black Box Recorder. It was featured in the album England Made Me. The song features a mixture of spoken word and a sung chorus. The spoken word tells of various incidents from childhood, including refusing to talk, expulsion from school for disruptive behaviour and parents arguing at Christmas. The sung chorus featured a highly controversial line, "Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it". This led to the song being banned on UK radio (with the exception of Xfm who gave it some daytime airplay) and MTV. However, the sardonic nature of the song also gained praise from critics, with one calling it 'refreshingly blunt'. The chorus was featured in a series 3 episode of Monkey Dust and in the season 1 episode 19 of the Gilmore Girls entitled "Emily in Wonderland", and consequently featured on the Gilmore Girls soundtrack, Our Little Corner of the World. The song was released in the US shortly after the Columbine massacre, this led to the line 'Kill Yourself' being played backwards on the US release. 


Year:
1998
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I stopped talking when I was six years old
I didn't want anything more to do with the outside world
I was happy being quiet
But, of course, they wouldn't leave me alone
My parents tried every trick in the book
From speech therapists to child psychologists
They even tried bribery
I could have anything
As long as I said it out loud

Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

Of course this episode didn't last forever
I'd made my point and it was time to move on
To peel away the next layer of deceit
And see what new surprises lay in store
My school report said I showed no interest
"A disruptive influence"
I felt sorry for them in a way
And when they finally expelled me
It didn't mean a thing

Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

(At that time she stopped what she was doing, she stopped playing. She stared, she had the facial grimicing, and then the psychiatrist was saying, "Julie, Julie, can you hear me? Can you open your eyes? Can you stick out your tongue?" And all of a sudden, Julie struck out.)

The November day when I came home
The Christmas decorations were already up
Spray on snow, coloured flashing lights
And an artificial tree that played Silent Night
Over and over again
My parents welcomed me with loving arms
But within an hour were back at each others throats
Normal, happy childhood back on course
Batteries not included

Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it
Life is unfair, kill yourself or get over it

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Black Box Recorder

Black Box Recorder were an English indie rock group. They debuted in 1998 with England Made Me and followed this up with The Facts of Life, which gave them their first hit with the single of the same name in April 2000. Their third album, Passionoia, was released in 2003. There is also a compilation album, The Worst of Black Box Recorder, a collection of B-sides, cover versions and remixes. more »

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Written by: JOHN MOORE, LUKE MICHAEL HAINES

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11 facts about this song

Production
"Child Psychology" is a song from the British indie band, Black Box Recorder's debut album, "England Made Me," released in 1998.
Lyrics
The song's lyrics are dark and satirical, contrasting disturbing content with a light, pop-style tune. The lines talk about a child who refuses to behave and even includes a phrase that goes, "'Life is unfair/Life is unkind''.
Controversy
"Child Psychology" became highly contentious because of its lyric: "Life is unfair/Kill yourself or get over it." The track was banned from radio play in the United Kingdom because it was seen as promoting suicide.
Members
Black Box Recorder is comprised of Luke Haines (formerly of The Auteurs), Sarah Nixey, and John Moore (formerly of Jesus and Mary Chain).
Video
The music video for "Child Psychology" is as provocative as the song itself. It shows a girl causing havoc in a restaurant, reflecting the child's rebellion mentioned in the song.
Influence
Despite its controversial nature, "Child Psychology" has been influential in indie pop, known for its stark contrast between upbeat melodies and dark lyrical themes.
Live Performances
Black Box Recorder frequently performed "Child Psychology" as part of their live sets, often resulting in mixed reactions due to its contentious lyrics.
Album
The album "England Made Me," which includes "Child Psychology," received positive reviews from critics who praised Black Box Recorder’s dark humor and unique musical style.
Ban Lift
Despite the initial radio ban in the UK, the song managed to receive airtime eventually, and it continues to be one of Black Box Recorder's most popular and controversial pieces.
Themes
"Child Psychology" addresses aspects of adolescence and societal expectations, where a child mentioned in this song uses rebellion as a form of coping mechanism against oppressive demands.
Remix
A remix version of "Child Psychology" was released, which modified the song's tempo and added a more danceable beat, making it popular in clubs despite its controversial lyrics.

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