Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated

Father MC

About Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated

"Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated" is a song by American hip hop artist Father MC, and features backing vocals by K-Ci and Jo-Jo, members of then-up-and-coming R&B group Jodeci. It was recorded for Father MC's debut album Father's Day, and released as its debut single in July, 1990.


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1990
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Chorus
Treat 'em like they wanna be treated
You should treat 'em right
(Repeat 4x's)
Yeah, oh yeah
What you need to do... 
You should treat them right.
Oh, yeah

Why girls play with my feelings?
I don't know so that's why I ask
Maybe it's true that I set myself up
But then again it's the question I asked
I want someone for me who is straight
A kind of cutie. Yes, yep, a smart mate
I've been around searching for the right one
But it seems like a waste of my time
Every time that I meet the right 1
It seems as if she plays with my mind
So it makes me on the defense side
Because my offense is sort of slow
It doesn't pay to tell someone "I love you"
Because in my vocab "I love u" is a no, no
I think I give in. My feelings, they show
I think I'd better not look back
I've been down a little too long
And now it's time that I get on track
So I must... 

Chorus

I like to mingle when I do mingle
I love to mingle when I do flirt
I get off hand and tell the stories
About my past & that's when it hurts
But I need to find for me a lonesome lady type
Who wants me for self
A woman who wants me because of Father
Not for the fame or for my wealth
So I can "Show her how I feel"
Yeah, ladies I'm not that picky
But being picky is just for self
I must protect what I respect
And that is me & not someone else
I've been mistreated up on the downhill
Back in the days I used to be strong
I used to flirt, hurt, kind of jerk
Get the cash, the sex then I'm gone
But payback is a mother
And now I don't know who to trust
So I just... 

Chorus

Yeah, you know women? Yeah they tell me I'm lovely & cuddly but I just don't understand why they want to play with my feelings. But it won't happen again.
Nah, never.

(No, no no no no no...)

So listen ladies I'll treat you
How you treat me back in return.
I'm not rude. No, I'm not stuck up
But my feelings are my main concern
So don't think that I'd give in
Cause now I know how to show
My feelings when I get involved
I'll take it slow before I say "Oh, No"
I'll treat you like you treat me
I'll be straight loyal & all
So don't take advantage of Father
Because I'll step up but not crawl
So give me what you can give me
Love, attention, a lot of respect
I don't ask for a whole lot
But I'm gone if you wanna step
That's why I like to take it slow
Not rush because I want more
The next time that I fall in love
Hmm, you bets I'll be sure

(I'm gonna treat you...)
Chorus

So ladies... now y'all know how I'm living... & y'all know what I'm about. And that's the end. So if you feel you can commit, come & give it a shot.

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Father MC

Father MC (born Timothy Brown) African American rapper Timothy Brown achieved success in the early 1990s on the Uptown Records label. Discovered and signed by then-Uptown executive Sean "Puffy" Combs, he is best known for introducing the public to Uptown's successful R&B act Jodeci in the track, "Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated" and up-and-comer Mary J. Blige. One of his most famous hits was "Lisa Baby," an upbeat, bouncy R&B hip hop crossover. more »

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Written by: MARK ROONEY, MARK MORALES, M. C. FATHER

Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group

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10 facts about this song

Release Details
"Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated" by Father MC was released in 1990. The song was part of his debut studio album, "Father’s Day."
Chart Performance
The song peaked at number 19 on the US Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs chart. - It also holds the 22nd spot on the Billboard Hot Rap Songs chart.
Artist Prolificness
Father MC, the rapper behind the song, was particularly prolific in the late 1980s and early 1990s, known for his fusion of hip-hop and new jack swing.
Label Association
"Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated" was released under Uptown's MCA-distributed label.
Music Genre
The song, just like Father MC's other music contributions, is predominantly a blend of hip-hop and new jack swing. Owing to this unique style, it helped to bring new jack swing to a mainstream audience.
Featured Artists
The track features vocal performances by singers Mary J. Blige and Jodeci, who at the time were upcoming artists making their debuts.
Controversy & Criticism
The song has been criticized for its materialistic approach to relationships, with lyrics centering around buying love with gifts and money.
Influence
Despite the criticism, the song played a significant role in the early 90's hip-hop scene, exploring themes of romance and respect in relationships, somewhat rare in the genre at the time.
Music Video
The music video for "Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated" introduces audiences to a rather lavish lifestyle, depicting scenes of jewelry, fancy cars, and high-fashion clothing to mirror the song's lyrics.
Legacy
Today, "Treat Them Like They Want to Be Treated" remains one of Father MC's most popular songs, and it continues to be a staple on classic hip-hop and R&B playlists.

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